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  • snooggums@lemmy.worldtoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.worldWhat does "blackpilled" mean?
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    2 days ago

    Most of the people that fit your description that I knew in the 90s had relationships with other outcasts, the people they hung out with. Hell, I probably could have fit that description and had no issues dating!

    ‘Normal women’ includes all kinds of women, but the context implies that they are choosing some kind of stereotypical type of woman which is limiting their dating pool. Their bitterness and hatred comes from not changing their behavior to attract the type of women they were interested in.






  • “Those people” can be a racist or classist dog whistle, but isn’t always, and also there isn’t really an alternative.

    The vast majority of the time ‘they’ or ‘them’ works in the same sentence as ‘those people’ when refering a goup since you already need context for who you are referring to. I can’t even think of an example where they or them doesn’t fit.

    Description of a group of white people from Georgia.

    • I heard they like fried chicken.

    • I heard those people like fried chicken.

    Hell, the second one sounds racist even after making it clear I was talking about white people, and I typed the words!


  • For example, one time I was talking about how my sister and her family/household travel often, saying, “Those people travel a lot,” and the person repeated those people and gave a slight laugh. I’m wondering if I may be giving some sort of unintentional implied message when I use that word.

    I joke around friends who accidentally phrase things in ways that could sound like bigotry/racism if taken out of context, and it sounds like that it what the person was laughing about.

    ‘Those people’, when used while judging or looking down on somebody is a common way for bigots and racists to avoid using slurs around non-bigots/racists. Something like “The park was a lot more fun before those people showed up.” while nodding in the direction of some people with darker skin. Or saying that ‘those people’ are doing something unacceptable.

    It isn’t a people vs persons thing, it is specifically the phrase ‘those people’.