Had no idea, thanks!

Employment.

Weirdly enough I’m high AF and it makes sense to me

If you’re happy and satisfied doing what you doing, more power to you friend.

If you feel like you’re stagnating and want a change, dive into something you’re mildly interested in with an open mind and see what happens.

Best of luck to you!

Good lord… Sorry you have to experience this. Massive disrespect from your ex, especially when you’ve set clear boundaries.