Stalkers, no doubt.
Dickwads.
Stalkers, no doubt.
Dickwads.
Thank you.
A big part of why I have severe anxiety to this day is because I was exposed to traumatic things far too young/quickly. I was pushed into situations where I was not ready or emotionally/mentally equipped to handle. Constantly.
Exposure is only good if a person is ready for it. Desensitization is only helpful when you are equipped to handle such a thing.
I had an ex who would say that we were doing one thing, then take me to do something completely different, then boast that he was “helping me”, which only heightened my fears in the end. As a foil to that, I had an ex after that who was encouraging and supportive and kind, and gently led me into the same situations, where I knew what I was getting into. Guess how which one had me overcoming my fears?
Exposure works best if you are prepared for the exposure and have the support you need in those kind of situations.
I am always thankful for trigger warnings.
Question from a dummy: why should you use a VPN when visiting?
I am learning all kinds of new and alarming things today!
Thank you!
I was suspicious of that guy!
It’s been removed.👍Thank you!
Oh, I labeled the cords & disconnected them to clean. Slid the side off to give everything a thorough shine!
Problem is: this cables connect to this big ho (which I also had to clean very very heavily).
Looking into my trash, it’s more like half a bucket, the other half being crumpled paper towels.
Sadly, I only remembered to take a single one before the process started. You can see an alarming amount of dust on certain parts if you look closely.
Warning for tech-gore, maybe? Again, I’m not a tech person. The back has always been partially open. This was built by someone else, and it’s… probably not standard.
Oh, it was bad. Real bad.
I thought it was just those fancy LEDs people put in their computers these days! Like a secret feature!
Thanks so much! I have in on a little shelf below my desk. I’ll be cleaning it much more often now!
WHOA!
Removing that nearly entire bucket of dust feels justified now! Makes me happy I wasn’t just wasting my time. Thank you!
Vampliers!
I work(ed) with old machines, and it was an absolute godsend. Prefer it after using penetrating spray on stuck screws.
It’s unisex, my guy. It’s for anyone who wants to wear it.👍
Someone on Lemmy theorized that I simply have a shit immune system. Witch Which may be accurate.
I don’t get itchy from mosquito bites. 🤔
Can cost anywhere from like 80$ to 250$ or so, typically. A full coord can cost you much much more, especially if it’s from one of the big brands.
You can get stuff less expensive from reputable sellers or smaller brands, though.
EDIT: Bodyline & Anna House Fashion are great budget options! Good quality, too.
“Dang. This is, like… the never-ending soda.”
Niche fashion style brand / release archive. Short for “lolita fashion.” Nothing to do with the Nabokov novel or the “other” thing. Just frilly shit I enjoy.
Isn’t it?? It’s from the brand “Emily Temple Cute”! Unfortunately, the cut doesn’t flatter me, as my torso is longer. 🥲
OH GOOD LAWD FINALLY THANK YOU CHEEZUS 🙏🙏🙏
It has been an absolute struggle trying to avoid spoilers.