Consequences and revenge are not the same thing. If he doesn’t receive the direct consequences of his actions, he will not learn that he shouldn’t do that. Clearly he is incapable of learning via polite means. You are not the only person he’s doing this to, and it is not acceptable.
Are you in the US? You might want to check out the eurovision song contest. I’ve become familiar with a lot more new music that way.
Kind of like how some bugs paralyze another bug species and lay their eggs in it, so when the babies hatch, they have food.
I am sometimes one of the ten. Thanks for sharing content.
Who’s reading this post in 1895? Because I accidentally dropped my phone while time traveling.
We really need Luke Cage for this.
Not a logical fallacy in itself, but related: the principle of charity
In philosophy and rhetoric, the principle of charity or charitable interpretation requires interpreting a speaker’s statements in the most rational way possible and, in the case of any argument, considering its best, strongest possible interpretation.
People typically do the opposite, assuming the worst possible interpretation of others’ arguments. I wish this principle was taught in schools.
I’ve gotten some of my best house cleaning done while angry.
I haven’t had a problem reviewing after 30 days.
Person ordering pizza: “My house is definitely on Fallingbrook Dr.”
Narrator: it was not.
I keep a consistently low health bar. Wouldn’t want to get too op.
I have moved across the US multiple times, so I should be eminently qualified to answer this, yet somehow I’m not. I can tell you some things that have worked and some that haven’t.
First, there are lots of moving checklists online to help with what order you should do things like contact movers or shut off electricity. I’m not going to get into those specifics. You should be able to find articles and calculators online that compare the cost of living and relative availability of jobs and housing in a given area. I’m not any help in that area but to say that you definitely need to have work secured before you move (learned that the hard way.)
You also want to have housing secured, even if only temporarily. When I moved from North Carolina to Wisconsin, we were lucky to meet someone right away at church who had off-season cabins we could rent cheaply by the week. Otherwise we’d have been homeless for several weeks. Side note: know where the hospital is. My mom had a panic attack at this time and ended up paying hundreds of dollars for an ambulance when it turned out the hospital was straight up the road).
When we moved to Virginia, we had reservations at a temporary stay hotel. Much less stressful to stay there until you find a more permanent situation.
When I moved to Florida, it was to be with a guy I met online. I visited him first, scouted out the area, and found an apartment that worked for me. It helps to know someone in the area and visit it first.
When we moved to Oregon, we had never been there before. Drove across the country 5 days with a Uhaul, two cars, and a little dog. More panic attacks ensued. We were lucky to get an apartment right away, but jobs were more difficult. I had 3 in my 10 months there. When mom and I found ourselves out of work at the same time, and we hadn’t built a supportive community there, we decided to head back to Virginia.
So it helps to make friends and have people you can rely on. Join whatever groups you can to build a community. If you’re in a more rural area (lower COL) that will be harder. Decide what size city/town will best meet your needs. How far are you willing to drive for groceries? Are there enough people to support whatever activities you’re into?
I regret some of my moves, but appreciate others. You can absolutely go to a new place and build a life there. People are key. Having a plan is important. If you can visit first, so much the better. I know a lot of people from New Jersey who have relocated happily to North Carolina. The Midwest has nice people, but the weather can make your situation more difficult. Also you’re looking at a two day drive or more, whereas you can visit the south in a day’s drive.
If you know the workers are being exploited, and you use the service anyway, how are you not partially responsible for exploiting them? It seems like you feel entitled to exploit them for your own gain as a customer. I agree that the employer is also responsible. A way to hold them accountable would be to eschew the service altogether. Otherwise, what incentive do they have to change?
If the business doesn’t deserve to exist, why do customers keep supporting them? Why is the onus only on the workers to suffer?
Beautiful little redhead.
You’re right, apparently I need my eyes checked.
It’s the upside down exclamation mark that throws me.i can barely find the regular exclamation mark on my new phone.
Depends on hair type. Conditioner can be heavy on baby fine hair. I almost never condition my chicken feathers.