EDIT: Thank you all so much for your thoughtful input. It means so much to me.
Hi, all. I’m looking to change my nasty tendency to be a sore loser, particularly when playing games. I tend to personalize losses that are of no consequence. When the game starts to shift against me, I often stop trying as hard because it feels hopeless. My partner is much more proficient at board games than I am, and I don’t want this toxic trait of mine to make games less fun for us. What are some things you all tried to lessen this train of thought, if you’ve experienced it?
Probably not the answer you’re looking for, but weed. I hate losing at anything, and that compounds heavily in matter that I care about. I’ve completely cut NFL from my life starting last year because that’s the only way that I found to not feel like shit after a loss. Not only did it ruin a day or two for me, I was a twat. Prior to weed, I was overtly aggressive. Not to others but my language and inanimate objects. Weed chilled those tendencies, but it didn’t fix post game losses. I’ve had to do a lot of deliberate mental work to stop caring. I think I was raised to be competitive, so breaking those traits has taken years.