I’m on lemmy.world (which is being crushed by new users) and infosec.pub. Considering just spinning up my own server.

I wish!

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I’m sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I’m on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn’t matter so long as whatever you’re on communicates with everyone else.