So sad that lots of people would gobble up thst shit, thinking that it’s still worthwhile price.

Hmm, interesting. I mean, I personally do not engage in specific projects. In my case, I did not find e.g. large enough mathematics server and PL community server in Matrix. This made me rarely visit matrix…

Thought we werr talking about the communities.

Project leaders?

They were 19 years old IIRC.

I actually recall talking with some girls. I know it’s anecdotal, but many of them explicitly said that they prefer appearance to personality. Some girls even said height-elevating shoes is what they hate the most. (And they care a lot about height)

I see, I did hear from multiple places (including from girls ofc) that appearance is the most important though.

Maybe I live in a place where appearance is nearly everything, or something.

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I see, I thought appearance is the biggest factor. Maybe it’s just local thing around me.

How about the appearance, I believe that would be much more relevant.

I believe it is appearance, the sample size is like 2~3 tho. At least I myself is suffering heavily from this.

Isn’t it mostly the appearance?

People call out your faulty behavior? What?

Thank god I do not use python.

Why is it declining rn?

Ewwwwww

CSAM? What is that, I’ve never seen any NSFW at all.

Fun theory, only if it holds some water…

I can be a data point, after initial enthusiasm I find myself spending less time on lemmy - which is not necessarily a bad thing. For me, it’s just that real life is getting precedence. Also this does not mean I left lemmy, will return again when the rough edges are sorted out.

Oh that’s me