Glowy

You gotta slow waay down with your kids. Remember, their brains are still developing all the pathways they will use in life, but it takes time. If you’ve only recently been allowed with them, they are not going to understand any nuance of the situation immediately. They will in time and probably gladly accept anything you offer one day.

Most people are able to do this. Some have an on/off switch that stays jammed in the on position most of the time.